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Archive for March, 2008

Introduction to The Sahabiyat

  • Introduction of Sahabiyaat
  • Sahabiyaat- female companions of the Prophetﻮﺴﻠﻢﺍﷲﻋﻠﻳﻪ ﺻﻟﻯ
    • They were noble women
    • They were active in religion, politics, spreading of Islam, education, interpreting Islamic Law, & giving Islamic verdicts.
    • They took part in the courts of Islamic Law, trade, commerce, agriculture, medicine, & nursing.
    • These characteristics are good to know so when people say Islam oppresses women & that they had no education, you can defend them using these positions women held.
  • Religious Achievements
    • They took part in military expeditions, spreading Islam, & converting many people.

Conviction & Will

Sahih Muslim Chapter 3: SUPPLICATION SHOULD BE MADE WITH CONVICTION AND WILL



Book 035, Number 6477:

Anas reported Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: When one of you makes supplication, he should supplicate with a will and should not say: O Allah, confer upon me if Thou likest, for there is none to coerce Allah.



Book 035, Number 6478:

Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: When one of you makes a supplication (to his Lord) one should not say: O Allah, grant me pardon, if Thou so likest, but one should beg one’s (Lord) with a will and full devotion, for there is nothing so great in the eye of Allah which He cannot grant.



Book 035, Number 6479:

Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: None of you should say to Allah (like this): O Allah, grant me mercy, if thou so likest. The supplication (of his) should (be permeated with) conviction (that it would be accepted by the Lord), for Allah is the Doer of (everything) He likes to do, and there is none to force Him (to do or not to do this or that).

Should African Americans call themselves African American?

Pearls of Wisdom

Imaam Ibnul Qayyim al-Jawziyyah (رحمه الله)

And the difference between backbiting and advice is that the intent behind advice is to warn the Muslim against an innovator or someone who can be a cause of fitnah (trial and tribulation) for him or from one who will deceive him or corrupt him.

So you will mention about him that which is necessary (from those things which were mentioned previously and or other than them) if there is between him and the other some sort of affiliation or business transaction or any type of involvement with him. As the Messenger (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said to Fatimah Bint Qays (رضى الله عنها) as she went to him seeking counsel concerning marriage to Mu’awiyyah (Ibn Abi Sufyaan) or Abu Jahm (رضي الله عنه), so he (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said to her:
“As for Mu’awiyyah then he is a poor man and as for Abu Jahm then he beats his women…” (Sahih Muslim)
And some of his (Abu Jahm’s) companions used to advise those who traveled with him that, “when you leave from his land (i.e. where he is known) then be cautious of him” (i.e. cautious of getting him married because of what he was known for of beating his women).
So, if backbiting occurs in a manner in which it is advice for the pleasure of Allaah and loving the Sunnah of) His Messenger (صلى الله عليه وسلم) and (loving) His slaves from amongst the Muslims, then it is a means of closeness to Allaah and from the hasanaat (the acts of good). And if it takes place in a manner where it is to humiliate your brother and to tear up his honor and to take delight in his flesh and to bite at it and to lower his place from the hearts of the people, then this is a disease that is incurable and it will burn up his good deeds just as fire burns up wood.

Planned Parenthood Accepts Donation to Abort Black Babies

A Planned Parenthood staffer excitedly accepted a donation from a caller who wanted his funds earmarked for women aborting black babies. The problem is the caller was an actor and the donation wasn’t real. What is very real was the racist reaction to the donation offer from the PP staffer who took the call.After asking that the donation go to abort black babies in his son’s name, the caller stated, “…we just think, you know, the less black kids out there the better.” To which the PP staffer laughed and said, “Understandable, understandable… Excuse my hesitation, um, um, this is the first time I’ve had a donor call and make this kind of request, so I’m excited, and I wanna make sure I don’t leave anything out.

Once the the audio and transcripts of the call were made public by The Advocate, a right-to-life student magazine at the University of California-Los Angeles, Planned Parenthood predictably apologized for the bad judgment of its staffer. But there is no indication that the staffer was fired or even disciplined.

Critics have long accused Planned Parenthood of concentrating their efforts in the black community and targeting other minorities.

Read the transcript of the call after the break.

Transcript released by The Advocate

LeBron James Covers Vogue

Basketball Super Star Lebron James posed with Supermodel Gisele Bundchen for this month’s cover of Vogue Magazine. Black readers have complained that this image is racist and depicts the athlete as looking a bit like King Kong and Fay Wray. I am personally not offended by this picture and I see no other way they could have posed. He is a very tall and muscular person and I imagine they wanted to keep it classy as not to frighten their “white” readers and decided to throw a popular model in the mix.

I guess as I Muslim I put things in perspective and I never immediately assume everything is a “black and white” issue. I think culturally Black folk are extremely too sensitive. I’m am finding more and more now that an interesting thing is happening in our communities. We are so easy to call someone on seemingly racist behavior, especially White, however, we are closed mouthed when we see our sisters being pimped out in music videos. Why don’t we call these rappers on their depiction of Black women (big booties, big breasted, weaved heads, and babies mamas).

This reader is Not offended and I take issue with Black folk who are. Get a grip!

Self Loathing Black Man?

Banned episodes of ‘The Boondocks’ to be aired on Teletoon

“The Boondocks” is about to take a detour into Canada.

Two episodes of the edgy, animated series, which is based on Aaron McGruder’s explosive comic strip, are airing on Teletoon’s adult-themed “Detour” programming block after being pulled from their originating U.S. broadcaster, the Cartoon Network. The episodes in question, “The Huey Freeman Hunger Strike” and “The Ruckus Reality Show,” air this Sunday night and next Sunday at 10:30 p.m. ET/PT.

Make no mistake – “The Boondocks” is not a children’s cartoon show. In fact, it may be one of the most adult shows on television. The series offers a bracing black perspective on American society from the point of view of two angry children, Huey and Riley (both voiced by Regina King), who move from the sketchy south side of Chicago to the manicured suburbs with their crotchety granddad, Robert Freeman (comedian John Witherspoon).

Most episodes are peppered with the N-word, which would normally get it banned just about anywhere else on television. McGruder, however, is uncompromising on this point, suggesting to critics a few years ago when the series was launched in the States that the phrase “the N-word” was more offensive to him than the word itself.

Champions of McGruder’s work say he provides a rare window on issues such as race relations and juvenile delinquency in America. “As hilariously scalding on-screen as it is in the comic pages,” raved the Seattle Post-Intelligencer’s Melanie McFarland.

The episodes in question, however, are not banned in America due to concerns over taboo language or sexual content. Rather, the Turner Cable-owned Cartoon Network yanked the two half-hours because they savage another cable network, BET.

BET’s CEO, Debra Lee, is depicted in Sunday’s episode as “Debra Lee-vil,” a sinister Dr. Evil clone who kills underlings and rants about creating a network “that would accomplish what hundreds of years of slavery, Jim Crow and malt liquor couldn’t – the destruction of black people.”

BET entertainment president Reggie Hudlin – once a “Boondocks” executive producer – is depicted as Dr. Lee-vil’s Harvard-educated lieutenant whose bright idea is to steal five-year-old reality show ideas from MTV and graft them onto the BET brand.

Clearly, McGruder hates BET, and it is hard not to see the depictions in this episode as personal attacks. It’s like sitting in on the first giddy draft of a satiric sketch in the writers’ room, only to realize that it was painstakingly inked and animated. (A request was made through Teletoon to interview McGruder but he was unavailable in time for this article.)

McGruder pushes parody to the limits in a relentless attack which continues in the next episode, where Uncle Ruckus, a self-hating black man (voiced by Gary Anthony Williams), gets his own offensive BET reality show.

The Cartoon Network has not acknowledged that the BET attacks were the reason for pulling the “Boondocks” episodes. All a spokesperson there would say is that Turner Cable was not contacted by BET, Lee or Hudlin.

It’s not the first time that a TV show banned in the U.S. has aired in Canada.

Way back in the late ’60s, CTV stood by “The Smothers Brothers,” airing an episode of the edgy variety show that CBS pulled from its schedule. (At the time, CBS used the excuse that the brothers failed to provide an advance tape for the censors; really, the network was looking for a way to ditch the show after feeling heat over the brothers’ opposition to the war in Vietnam.)

Teletoon’s decision to air the episodes is already being hailed in the comment sections of animation blogs and websites south of the border. Others are praising it for different reasons. The Canadian airings are sure to lead to the episodes being posted on video file-sharing sites such as YouTube – meaning Americans can finally see them, too, without having to spring for the upcoming, uncensored “Boondocks” season 2 DVD.

Bill Brioux is a freelance TV columnist based in Brampton, Ont.